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|The Life/Career Success System - Positive Expectancy|
A mature attitude toward the world toward other people and most importantly toward yourself produces in you a positive expectancy. Positive expectancy comes from all the internal or ‘self’ relationships, self-awareness, self-confidence, self-acceptance, self-respect and self-reliance. Positive expectancy requires a no limitations belief in you. That involves calm and honest self-confidence. It demands that you be goal directed and progressively develop the following:
Self-confidence which = Power!
Positive expectancy involves accepting you, as you are, being aware of your strengths your weaknesses and your assets and your liabilities. This also involves a strong drive for self-improvement. Setting your goals and working out your plan of action will help identify and overcome doubt.
Crystallise your thinking know where you stand now and know where you are going. You will relate well to events, circumstances and people because you have a set of values, goals and objectives. This enables you to realise your full potential. Positive expectancy toward life and the people who share it with you will mean you will have all the things you expect actually happen.
You will create a self-fulfilling prophecy people do what they are expected to do. This includes what you expect of yourself - if you set challenging goals and devise a workable plan for reaching them you will soon find that the success you expect will be a reality.
Creativity is an even finer art than pure inventive genius. It is a conceptual skill a willingness to innovate to try the untried to see the usual in unusual ways and to relate the normally unrelated. Creativity allows you to face a changing world and an uncertain future without feeling undue stress.
Blocks to Creativity
NEGATIVE THINKING - discover the reasons behind negative thinking then displace old habit patterns with higher goals, greater determination and positive affirmations. The key to growth is your confidence and belief in your ability to change yourself and your attitudes.
Reliving past failures
Mistakes are neither a bad mark on your record nor indications of weakness. They are an important part of the learning process. Success does involve mistakes - as you progress towards predetermined goals you will make one fewer mistake with each step.
You are the most important person in terms of your life - you are the only answer to the problems of your life you are the only solution. You must define your own values, set progressively higher goals and structure a plan for their attainment. You search for purpose and meaning in life. And you find within yourself a wellspring of motivation urging you to contribute to life something uniquely yours.